Valentine…is about you first!
I was going to write a post on Valentine, but then I remembered a conversation I’d had with Roseline and based on that, decided to ask here if she would write a piece this valentine for us….our conversation had been about looking after yourself and then making yourself worth it …both inside and outside. Many times, we tend to focus on one or the other rather than both! Peharps Valentine is a time to remember yourself but without going on…I’ll handover to Roseline:
“Valentine’s day’ is an incredible period that can be seen from various points of view: First, there are those in absolute denial and rejection of the whole notion and just think, ‘WHATEVER!!’.
Secondly are the ‘WANNABEEES’…they ‘wanna be loved by hook or by crook!’ and would go to all lenghts to prove to their ever watching imaginary ‘fans’ that they are absolutely loved!! Oh la la!!..the flowers, the cards, the absolute enviable romance from an existing or imaginary person!
Then there is the third group that have A FLOW OF admirers and actually take it for granted! Yes, I know you know some of them! People we would love to hate but can’t as we are in absolute envy and confusion at how they can just be so ‘EFFORTLESSLY ATRACTIVE’ to others ..and some are not even good looking!! So, what is making them so magnetic?
Then we have those who love out of ‘DUTY AND ROUTINE!’. As it is ‘expected’ of them. Yet secretly, they do not ‘feel’ special and do not honestly enjoy the whole blinking affair!
Finally, there are those who think, ‘yes, we must make an effort at least this year!’ But probably may not do anything at all!..as they have said this before and will continue saying this till the cows come home! Hmmmm…the power of ‘PROCRASTINATION’!!
So where does all this leave you?
Beauty and sensuality comes from within. If your emotions were a personality..the question is…honestly, WOULD YOU DATE YOU?…no no..stop thinking that you could make the extra effort but… ‘something’ must happen first to merit your efforts!…
If you ‘feel’ beautiful, your aura will be beautiful and sensual. You will automatically attract admiration, attention, love and all.
It is not what you ‘say’ that matters most but what you ‘think’. Your life is a result of your thought process. You think, then you act, so you attract and then you receive. It is as simple as that!
So, how can you ‘think’ love and inner sensuality into materialization and truely enjoy the moment?
EASY!! Try spoiling ‘YOURSELF’ first and watch and see. Love ‘YOU’ first. Love ‘YOUR’ skin.
Love ‘YOUR’ face.
Do something special for ‘YOU’.
Celebrate ‘YOU’.
Date ‘YOU’!
Once you are your number 1 fan…ahhhh…now this is the ‘AHA’ moment….anything is possible!
So go on… stop allowing your self to be a wall flower on the dance floor! You are waiting for you.
Give your self a break…..enjoy loving ‘YOU’on Valentine’s day…..”
By Roseline Banjoko.
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